New York Divorce Grounds
New York divorce law changed on August 15, 2010, when Governor David Paterson signed no-fault divorce into law in New York state. Until 2010, New York recognized divorces only upon fault-based criteria or upon separation. Now, the following grounds (reasons) you can use to get a divorce in New York.
♦ One of the parties has sworn under oath that the relationship has broken down irretrievably for a period of at least six months; AND
♦ You and your spouse have either resolved all the economic issues of distribution of property, spousal support, child support, and counsel and/or experts fees and expenses, and the custody and visitation with the minor children of the marriage OR these issues have been decided by the court and incorporated into the final judgment of divorce.
Abandonment may take the form of your spouse physically departing your marital home without any intention of returning for a period of one year or longer prior to commencing the action, and continuing to the present, without any good reason for doing so and without your consent.
Another form of abandonment is called the lock out, which involves one spouse’s refusal to allow the other spouse into the home continuously for more than one year prior to commencing the action and continuing to the present.
Constructive abandonment involves one spouse’s refusal to engage in sexual relations with the other spouse continuously for one year or longer prior to commencing the action, and continuing to the present, without consent, good cause or justification and despite your repeated requests.
The ground of adultery can be difficult and expensive to prove because the testimony of the Plaintiff is not enough and other evidentiary requirements must be satisfied (the Defendant’s admission is not enough). A corroborative affidavit of a 3rd party witness or other proof should be attached to the papers you submit to the court. You should keep in mind that acts of adultery may qualify as acts of cruelty and entitle you to maintain a divorce action on the grounds of cruel and inhuman treatment.
Note: if you found out about the adultery more than five years ago and your spouse opposes the divorce, your case may be dismissed.
You cannot obtain a divorce on this ground simply because you have arguments or because of an isolated act in an otherwise long and peaceful marriage.
If all or some of the acts occurred more than five years ago and your spouse opposes the divorce, your case may be dismissed. In describing the specifics acts of cruelty, you must be clear and to the point.
You must supply the court with details like dates and places. If you do not remember the exact dates, use the words “on or about”.
After describing the acts of cruelty you should conclude with the following language: “The conduct of the Defendant was cruel and inhuman and so endangered the physical or mental well being of the Plaintiff as to render it unsafe or improper for the Plaintiff to cohabit with the Defendant.”
This ground is not used often. It involves a judgment of separation of the Supreme Court. To maintain a divorce action the parties are required to live separately and apart, they must satisfy the terms of the judgment of separation for more than one year after the judgment was granted.
If you or your spouse have lived apart for more than one year according to the terms and conditions of a properly executed separation agreement, you may maintain an action for divorce. It may be advisable to consult an attorney regarding this ground for divorce.